Ever found yourself in a situation that you happen to know something is up with either your best friends boyfriend or someone close to you but you really don’t know where to start by telling them you know that he is cheating?
Well, am guessing most of us have found themselves in this wird situations and you never seem to know whether to tell and after when they apparently makeup you be branded the turtle tale or keep it inside with the risk of when your friend gets to know about it you be called an ‘unfit friend’.
Before you act, make sure the piece of information you are about to give is true because as l say gossip by its nature is not to be trusted.
In most cases the simplest and honorable way to deal with gossip or rumors of any sort is never to pass them unless in the case of discovery of an infidelity perpetrated against a friend which might also be trick as l said earlier you get caught in between whether to tell them or not. But have this in mind if you decide not to tell your friend when the truth comes out(and believe me it always comes out)they will most defiantly ask you one of the two questions, “how come you knew and never said anything?” or “what kind of a friend are you?”. how you will feel about answering this questions will determine the cause of action best for you.
So next time you get your friends hubby cheating think twice before taking action you never know how they will react but if you are sure it is not gossip then ad rather you tell other than keeping it because if you do so you as a friend will be also be betraying a friend. make the right choice.
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Sudi fab
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